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keyed |
Am willing to take risks to establish a relationship. |
| Know that there are people in my life who care as much for me as for themselves. | |
| Know that some others accept my shortcomings. | |
| Am the most important person in someone else's life. | |
| Can express love to someone else. | |
| Know someone whom I really care about as a person. | |
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Feel isolated
from other people. |
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Have difficulty
accepting love from anyone. |
| Omitted | Could never stop loving my family and close friends, no matter what they did. |
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| + keyed | Don't miss group meetings or team practices. |
| Enjoy being part of a group. | |
| Support my teammates or fellow group members. | |
| Feel I must respect the decisions made by my group. | |
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| - keyed |
Am not good at working with a group. |
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Prefer to do everything alone. |
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Work best when
I am alone. |
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Keep to myself. |
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Don�t think it�s important to socialize with others. |
| Omitted | Am an extremely loyal person. |
| Don't talk badly to outsiders about my own group. | |
| Must try to maintain harmony within my group. | |
| Lose respect for leaders if I disagree with them. | |
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| +
keyed |
Find the world a very interesting place. |
| Am never bored. | |
| Am always busy with something interesting. | |
| Am excited by many different activities. | |
| Can find something of interest in any situation. | |
| Think that my life is extremely interesting. | |
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Love to hear
about other countries and cultures. |
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- keyed |
Am not all that
curious about the world. |
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Find it
difficult to entertain myself. |
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Have few
interests. |
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| +
keyed |
Admit when I am wrong. |
| Treat all people equally. | |
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Am a good
listener. |
| Believe that everyone's rights are equally important. | |
| Give everyone a chance. | |
| Am committed to principles of justice and equality. | |
| Believe that everyone should have a say. | |
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- keyed |
Take advantage
of others. |
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Treat others
differently if I don't like them. |
| Omitted | Refuse to take credit for work I haven�t done. |
| Know people whose opinions are simply not worth listening to. | |
| Feel like a loser if I compromise. | |
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| + keyed |
Let bygones be bygones. |
| Never seek vengeance. | |
| Allow others to make a fresh start. | |
| Believe that it is best to forgive and forget. | |
| Don't try to get even. | |
| Hate to see anyone suffer, even my worst enemy. | |
| Try to respond with understanding when someone treats me badly. | |
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- keyed |
Hold grudges. |
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Do not give
anyone a second chance to hurt me. |
| Omitted | Am unwilling to accept apologies. |
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+ keyed |
Express my
thanks to those who care about me. |
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Have been
richly blessed in my life. |
| Stop to count my blessings. | |
| Am an extremely grateful person. | |
| Feel thankful for what I have received in life. | |
| Feel a profound sense of appreciation every day. | |
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- keyed |
Do not see the
need to acknowledge others who are good to me. |
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Find few things
in my life to be grateful for. |
| Omitted | Get chills when I hear about acts of great generosity. |
| Don't make a big deal about gifts that I receive. | |
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| +
keyed |
Look on the bright side. |
| Can find the positive in what seems negative to others. | |
| Remain hopeful despite challenges. | |
| Will succeed with the goals I set for myself. | |
| Think about what is good in my life when I feel down. | |
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Have no plan
for my life five years from now. |
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Am not
confident that my way of doing things will work out for the best. |
| Omitted | Can clearly picture in my mind what I want to happen in my future. |
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| +
keyed |
Try to tease my friends out of their gloomy moods. |
| Use laughter to brighten the days of others. | |
| Try to have fun in all kinds of situations. | |
| Try to add some humor to whatever I do. | |
| Keep my sense of humor even in gloomy situations. | |
| Have a great sense of humor. | |
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Am not fun to
be with. |
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Do not go out
of my way to make others smile or laugh. |
| Omitted | Believe that life is more of a playground than a battlefield. |
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+ keyed |
Am trusted to
keep secrets. |
| Keep my promises. | |
| Believe that honesty is the basis for trust. | |
| Can be trusted to keep my promises. | |
| Am true to my own values. | |
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- keyed |
Lie to get
myself out of trouble. |
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Am hard to
understand. |
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Feel like an
imposter. |
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Like to
exaggerate my troubles. |
| Omitted | Take pride in not exaggerating who or what I am. |
| Am told that I am down to earth. | |
| Am told by friends that they do not really know who I am. | |
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| +
keyed |
Try to identify the reasons for my actions. |
| Make decisions only after I have all of the facts. | |
| Am valued by others for my objectivity. | |
| Am a firm believer in thinking things through. | |
| Weigh the pro's and the con's. | |
| Try to have good reasons for my important decisions. | |
| Am valued by my friends for my good judgment. | |
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|
- keyed |
Don't think
about different possibilities when making decisions. |
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Don't tend to
think things through critically. |
| Omitted | Don't think about more possibilities than the one I like first. |
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| +
keyed |
Am never too busy to help a friend. |
| Go out of my way to cheer up people who appear down. | |
| Love to make other people happy. | |
| Helped a neighbor in the last month. | |
| Get as excited about the good fortunes of others as I am about my own. | |
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Call my friends
when they are sick. |
| Love to let others share the spotlight. | |
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| -
keyed |
Get impatient when others talk to me about their problems. |
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Try not to do
favors for others. |
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Am only kind to others if they
have been kind to me. |
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| Am good at helping people work well together. | |
| Am told that I am a strong but fair leader. | |
| Try to make my group members happy. | |
| -
keyed |
Have difficulty getting others to work together. |
| Am not good at taking charge of a group. | |
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Am not good at
planning group activities. |
| Omitted | Treat everyone the same. |
| Believe that our human nature brings us together to work for common goals. | |
| Believe that leaders should let everyone have a say in what the group does. | |
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| +
keyed |
Go out of my way to attend educational events. |
| Am thrilled when I learn something new. | |
| Look forward to the opportunity to learn and grow. | |
| Am a true life-long learner. | |
| Read all the time. | |
| Consult the library or the Internet immediately if I want to know something. | |
| Read a large variety of books. | |
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- keyed |
Don't like to
learn new things. |
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Do not like to
visit museums. |
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Don't read
nonfiction books for fun. |
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| +
keyed |
Am humble about the good things that have happened to me. |
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Believe that
others are drawn to me because I am humble. |
| Don't act is if I'm a special person. | |
| Don't brag about my accomplishments. | |
| Am proud that I am an ordinary person. | |
| Don't call attention to myself. | |
| Would never be described as arrogant. | |
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- keyed |
Like to stand
out in a crowd. |
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Like to talk
about myself. |
| Omitted | Feel that too much modesty gets a person in trouble. |
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| + keyed | Am able to come up with new and different ideas. |
| Like to think of new ways to do things. | |
| Come up with new ways to do things. | |
| Am an original thinker. | |
| Have an imagination that stretches beyond that of my friends. | |
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- keyed |
Don't pride
myself on being original. |
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Am not
considered to have new and different ideas. |
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Have no special
urge to do something original. |
| Omitted | Tend to think of alternatives when someone tells me how to do something. |
| Have recently found an original solution to a problem in my life. | |
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| +
keyed |
Have a broad outlook on what is going on. |
| Have an excellent view of the world. | |
| Have been described as wise beyond my years. | |
| Have a mature view on life. | |
| Consider myself to be a wise person. | |
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Am considered
to be a wise person. |
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- keyed |
Lose sight of
what is most important in life. |
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Am not good at
figuring out what really matters. |
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Am rarely
consulted for advice by others. |
| Omitted | Have never given bad advice to a friend. |
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| +
keyed |
Have never deliberately hurt anyone. |
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Cannot imagine
lying or cheating. |
| Believe it is always better to be safe than sorry. | |
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Think before I
speak. |
| Follow the rules. | |
| Avoid activities that are physically dangerous. | |
| Keep straight right from wrong. | |
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Make careful
choices. |
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- keyed |
Behave in
unusual and strange ways. |
| Omitted | Know that my friends consider me to be impulsive. |
| Act before thinking through the consequences. | |
| Like taking risks. | |
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| + keyed | Have no trouble eating healthy foods. |
| Am a highly disciplined person. | |
| Forego things that are bad for me in the long run even if they make me feel good in the short run. | |
| Can stay on a diet. | |
| Can always say "enough is enough." | |
| -
keyed |
Do not exercise on a regular basis. |
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Can't resist
eating candy or cookies if they are around. |
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Am not very
good at getting things done. |
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Let myself be
taken over by urges to spend or eat too much. |
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Do my tasks
only just before they need to be done. |
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Give in to my
urges. |
| Omitted | Can control my emotions. |
| Feel that practice is as important as performance. | |
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|
+ keyed |
Believe in a
universal power or God. |
| Am a spiritual person. | |
| Keep my faith even during hard times. | |
| Have spent at least 30 minutes in the last 24 hours in prayer or meditation. | |
| Am who I am because of my faith. | |
| Believe that each person has a purpose in life. | |
| Know that my beliefs make my life important. | |
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- keyed |
Do not practice
any religion. |
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Do not believe
in a universal power or a God. |
| Omitted | Know that my life has no strong purpose. |
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|
| +
keyed |
Have taken frequent stands in the face of strong opposition. |
| Don't hesitate to express an unpopular opinion. | |
| Call for action while others talk. | |
| Can face my fears. | |
| Speak up in protest when I hear someone say mean things. | |
|
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Am a brave
person. |
| -
keyed |
Avoid dealing with uncomfortable emotions. |
|
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Avoid dealing
with awkward situations. |
|
|
Do not stand up
for my beliefs. |
|
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Don't speak my
mind freely when there might be negative results. |
| Omitted | Have overcome pain and disappointment. |
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|
| +
keyed |
Prefer to participate fully rather than view life from the sidelines. |
| Don't approach things halfheartedly. | |
| Love what I do. | |
| Look forward to each new day. | |
| Can�t wait to get started on a project. | |
| Can hardly wait to see what life has in store for me in the years ahead. | |
|
|
Awaken with a
sense of excitement about the day's possibilities. |
|
- keyed |
Dread getting
up in the morning. |
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|
Don't have much
energy. |
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| Omitted | Am described as grumpy. |